Sunday, May 1, 2011

Inconsiderate Neighbour

Sometimes I really wished that I would be more tolerant, then I wouldn't have to feel so indignant and angry.

Thought that speaking to their parents would be able to solve the problem but I was really wrong, really wrong man.

These kids next door were really horrible and inconsiderate. They like to play soccer at the lift lobby which is just a few steps from my doorway. Their ball banged our doors numerously time and nearly hit the people coming out of the lift.

I've talked to these kids so many times but to no avail.

This night, at 10.30pm, again, they were playing the ball. I was really fed up that I went over to talk to their father, asking his father to stop his sons from playing at the lift lobby. I told him that it was dangerous to play there especially the ball might just hit anybody passing by. I thought his father was a reasonable person, but I was wrong!

Guess what was his response.


I was really disappointed, really disappointed and angry. Not only he didn't heed to what I said, he even told his sons to ignore me and continue playing! Imagine that! Such inconsiderate neighbours! So outrageous and rude!

I really regretted confronting him, he really made me so furious!

Just my luck to have such inconsiderate neighbours!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Truly thankful

It's a blessing to have another new bundle of joy coming into our family. I am really relieved that the test result is positive after so many sleepless nights. Too many things happened during the first quarter of the year. I nearly brokedown and I kept telling myself to be strong. This year was not a rosy year for me when I didn't receive my bonus and increment. A double whammy for me when my gynae told me to go for the Amniotic fluid test as the Down syndrom risk was pretty high, 1:15. I was devastated and I admitted I was also very scared. I get agitated very easily and eyes were often tearful. I tried to control my emotions whenever someone asked me how is everything. I wished I could tell them that I am ok but actually deep inside I am not. I was taken by surprise when my cousin, WanShan revealed to me that she was told by her gynae to go for the amniotic fluid too during her second pregnancy. I was not told to go for the fluid test during my first 2 pregnancy, probably one of the reasons was that I didn't opt for the blood test.

I am really grateful that everything turns out well. My heart really skipped a beat when the clinic called. I was really relieved and happy that I could keep this child. I am also grateful to those who had prayed for me and comforted me in my dumps. I am glad I still have so many friends standing by me. Really thankful from the bottom of my heart.